(Ralp Waldo Emerson)
Wise sentences above may be very easy to understand. But when a failure is only a few individuals who could apply the meaning contained in that sentence. Similarly, other wise words: "Failure is success delayed. " Really?
Failure & Success
If we refer to the merged life stories of people we know and introduced by the history it tends to obtain the same conclusion that failure is a potential event that is neutral, 'hidden potential events' that have no particular significance except after being given meaning by us: fate, destiny , torture, trials, challenges or lessons. Whatever the meaning of which shall be affixed in the end will come back on the formula that life is more on deciding the choice and feel the consequences.
Based on these events, the hidden potential can be understood if the new Abraham Lincoln achieve its political goals at the age of 52 years Soichiro Honda who until his disability because of the piston design; or Werner Von Braun rocket inventor who call failure rate 65 121 times. AMROP International, senior executive search firm with offices in 78 countries around the world including Indonesia, had issued a record of fluctuations of emotion jobseekers since been laid off to find a new job. Calculated, fluctuating up and down that happens as much as 26 times with the assumption that at least six months.
In short, failure and success is the rhythm of life is not separate from the lives of all people. So what distinguishing between struggle without end (Unstoppable) which resulted in the "modifier" world to the struggle that defeated the despair because of failures that may occur only a fraction of a percent?
Responding to Failure
Attitude of individuals in moments in which failure occurs can be distinguished as follows:
1.Let it go
Model this attitude is to accept failure with a low quality form of letting it all happen. This attituderesulted from a low mentality to break down the situation because they do not have the will which was raised in deep to find a rational cause . It may be that the will was closely related to the level of knowledge and expectations people have. Because the rational answer is not found, then the sole means used to condone such an attitude is to put the failure in the area of life untouched by the effort himself by believing the word destiny or fate.
2. Reject
The second model is rejected kegagalan.Penolakan attitude that takes the form of blaming others, circumstances or even God, because of perceived unfair treat. Usually rejection occurred due to the balance of life receive less attention in the level of intellectual, emotional or spiritual. Although the failure can be disabled, but due to rejection by, the balance between effort and results are not comparable. If taken parable then this model is like a man kill a mosquito with a gun.
3. Receive
The third attitude model is the most ideal is to accept failure with high quality. Here the failure is a matter of self-learning or educational curriculum situation. Daam this certainly does not mean that the more failures the better but who wants to focus on is how the individual puts a failure as a process that accompanies the realization of the idea. It could be physical facts show events that have not / do not run as desired by the plan but the people like Edison or anyone else who bermazhab same seize-life responsibility to change the physical facts of life from the grip of it temporary. As said Dr. Denis WAITLEY: "There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as They exist, or accept the responsibility for changing Them."